About

Hi, I'm Ulle.

I help busy people whose homes are no longer keeping up with the pace of life. Families, expats, professionals and households where one or two people happen to have ADHD. I'll help you declutter, organise the space with you, recommend storage that earns its place, and build custom pieces when standard ones don't solve the problem.

Because life is hard enough without fighting your kitchen, your wardrobe or your entryway every day.

Ulle, founder of Mess Happens

I was the messy child. My cupboards were chaotic, my desk was buried in unfinished projects, and my version of tidying often meant hiding things where nobody could see them. School bags exploded into corners, and I could never find anything.

Then, as a teenager, something shifted. I became quietly obsessed with organising. Not the magazine kind, the practical kind. Where should the scissors actually live? Why does the kitchen counter always collect everything? Could a different cupboard layout solve a daily argument? Organising became my way of making sense of the world.

Years later, after being diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, it all clicked. The little systems I'd been building since I was thirteen weren't about being neat. They were survival tools. They lowered the mental load, reduced decisions, and made my life livable on the days my brain wasn't cooperating.

In between, I spent twenty years as a product manager: a professional systems thinker, problem solver and translator between messy reality and useful design. I now bring all of it (the ADHD coaching, the lived experience, the product brain, the genuine love of solving practical problems) into other people's homes.

I help families, professionals and expats create homes that work in real life. ADHD is an area of deep expertise, but the approach helps anyone whose home has stopped keeping up.

Why this matters to me

I'm a wife, a mother of two, an expat and someone living with ADHD. My household includes more than one ADHD brain. I know what it's like to lose the same keys twice in a morning, to find lunchboxes still in the school bag at 8pm, and to look at a pantry full of food and feel like there's nothing to eat.

I've experienced firsthand how much harder a home becomes when traditional organising advice simply doesn't apply. "Just put things back where they belong" only works if there's a sensible place to put them.

I've also seen what happens when a home is set up properly: less stress, fewer arguments, less time spent looking for things, and more energy for the people and the parts of life that actually matter.

My approach

I don't believe a good home should depend on willpower. Most people already know what they "should" be doing. The challenge is creating organisation that's easy enough to follow on a difficult Wednesday, not just on a hopeful Sunday.

A successful project isn't about a perfect home for one day. It's about everyday life being easier months later, after the busy weeks, the sick kids and the ordinary chaos of being a household.

My goal is never perfection. It's a home that's easier to live in, and easier to get back on track.

Why clients work with me

  • 20 years of product management and systems thinking
  • ADHD coach training and ongoing certification
  • Lived ADHD experience as a mum and expat
  • Hands-on decluttering and organising, with you
  • Custom-built pieces (woodworking, DIY, 3D printing)
  • Judgement-free, no-shame support

What success looks like

  • Walking into your kitchen without feeling overwhelmed.
  • Knowing where things belong.
  • Spending less time tidying.
  • Arguing less about clutter.
  • Helping your children build lifelong organisation skills.
  • Having a home that supports your brain instead of fighting it.

Let's design a home that fits how you live.

A free 30-minute discovery call to talk about your home, your family and what's been getting in the way.

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